Dear Parents,
As you may know, we are a “Character Counts” school. “Character Counts” is a national character education program. Its framework is centered on basic values they titled the “Six Pillars of Character.” The values are: trustworthiness, respect, responsibility, fairness, caring and citizenship. Every Monday morning two students read a message related to one of these values.
Below I share the message that on Monday will be read by two 5th graders – Colin Beatty and Rob Rewey. The message reads:
It’s time for Halloween and tricks and treat and things that go bump in the night. It’s a time when some people pretend that witches and goblins come out to play. Maybe this is a good time to look at other things that might scare you, like a fear of asking questions in class or a fear of taking tests.
Listen to these thoughts about fear from Dr. Herbert Frankenstein. I meant, Dr. Herbert Fenterheim:
The question is not whether you are frightened or not, but whether you or fear is in control … The correct thing to tell yourself is “If I do get frightened, I will stay in command.”
In other words, what’s important is to notice when you are feeling afraid and then stay in charge by not letting the fear get the best of you.
Next time you find yourself afraid to speak up in class, afraid to take a test, or afraid to ask for something you need, ask yourself who’s in charge, you or that old goblin Fear? Then ask someone you respect to help you get past your fear so you can take charge.
I am sending you this message to make you aware of the readings and give you an opportunity to follow up on the discussion Monday evening at home if you like.
Please let me know if you have any questions.
Felix Gil – Principal
